I've given you a couple of true stories, but before I deliver more here's a cautionary guide on how to live the dream - commit this to memory and then destroy it!
The main danger you will face is from people who disapprove of what you are doing. During my ten years of activity there were (on occasions) reports in the media of people being badly beaten and even killed because they were suspected of cottaging. The way you avoid crazed members of the public is by being discreet. Find a good location and just be patient. Don’t go flashing your dick at the urinal unless you are the Schwarzenegger of thrill seekers. Treat cottaging as a discipline and learn to become a masterful hunter, just read the signs and discover the rules, it’s a very intuitive game.
Punters can be strange and will come in all shapes and sizes with fetishes to match, but in general they only want to be turned on and so fearing them is unnecessary; they don’t want to kill you and wear your skin – I promise! Your only real problem is finding the right ones for your needs and sifting through those who want something different. This though, is often part of the fun!
Say no as often as you want. Go at your own speed and only do things you want to. You may need to modify your vulnerable routine to incorporate a decisive: ‘no I don’t want that stuck up my ass’ but people will listen to you and respect your boundaries.
Toilet traders are an incredibly cautious bunch for the following reasons: (A) they don’t want their wife, Boss, friends or neighbors knowing what they do. (B) They don’t want to be arrested. (C) They don’t want to be assaulted by haters. This all works to your advantage because one shout or act of panic from you and it all comes crashing down for them; your collusion is essential for the game to work – it takes two to Tango.
Location identification is essential for success. Public toilets in car parks, in recreational parks or tucked down side streets are usually the most active, often they are veritable orgy spots – which can be good or bad depending on what you want. Try not so obvious places too such as bus or train stations, secluded woodland, large department stores, libraries and even hospitals. The key here is to look for areas with public access that people can visit anonymously.
Tell tale signs that X marks the spot are graffiti advertising the activity, peep holes and gloryholes, cubicles where the lock has been broken or sabotaged, places where underwear or porno literature has been left or places where there are numerous puddles of spunk and/or tissues!
Choose the right time, different times produce different results depending on where you are. But generally I found lunchtime was excellent for quickies. Toilets in large areas will be busy not only with normal users, but also people who want to give or receive a suck. You can expect all (legal) ages at this time of day.
Afternoon is a time when dedicated cottagers come out, usually older gentlemen or people with the day free. Expect more prolonged contact here, time to experiment and really play out your fantasies. Group encounters are also possible at this time.
Early evening, similar to the lunch hour, married men and office workers heading home and stopping by for relief. This time however, they often have longer to play so it can be very rewarding for you if you desire fifteen to thirty rather than just five minutes of contact.
Late evening and early hours. An exciting time that always feels more daring and dangerous. Your main catches will be middle-aged dog walkers and guys who have left the bar feeling horny and uninhibited. Be cautious around drunken guys for obvious reasons. You’ll also run into the dedicated afternoon types who just can’t stay away and in my opinion you will have the greatest chance of a group encounter if you hunt late at night.
*This guide is compiled from my experiences in England, other countries may require an even more cautious approach! Good luck and happy hunting ! Love from Armatige X
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